Holy shit. Why does it actually work???

Hello r/nofap. I never thought I'd ever make a post here, because I kinda found the idea of a community around this silly. But here is the deal:

I was a lossless virgin for so long. Then around 2019 I tried nofap for NNN and just kept going a few months extra. All of a sudden a girl confesses her love for men I get into my first relationship. wtf?

We later break up, I go back to my old ways, fap on the daily, nothing exciting happen for one year plus.

Last year, I try NNN. And suddenly a woman falls for me and we hit it off. It didn't amount to much of a relationship, moreso hook up.

Anyhow, things go back to their old ways. I get depressed, fap.

NOW, NNN again! Not even half way in and a girl out of the blue falls for me again.

How is this even possible?? Like nofap is somehow foolproof for attracting women. I get ZERO action otherwise. I'm converted.